I hear from women who have sex on the first date, and then try to leverage that act into love, says Masini.
They are rightassuming that guy search sex offenders oklahoma waiting past the first date is doing it in the traditional AFC manner.
Thats a 90 minute meet-to-lay.
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I dont care how hot she is, how smart she is, how wonderful she is, or how much it appears she likes you.
If you talk to a lot of guys who often get laid on first dates, you will clearly see that the vast majority of first date lays require long first dates.
Most of you know the rest of the story.
Im not going to discuss that today because Ive done that to death (take a look at the archives of this blog if youre interested in that topic).
Responses To A One-Date Model, traditional seduction community guys say that waiting to fuck a girl until the second date (or third date or fourth date or whatever) is stupid and AFCish.